REVEALED! How To Know If A Man Isn’t In Love With You

What if I told you after reading this you can easily detect when your man has fallen out of love with you? I’m sure you might be wondering how don’t worry be calm let me start with
the story of my friend Caroline.

I still remember how he shut the door to her face saying, I don’t love you anymore LEAVE ME ALONE. Those were the last words he said to her.

No lady I’m sure will want to be in a relationship that is out of love, but the sad truth is many still fall victim to this ordeal just like my friend Caroline did.

Did she see some of these signs? yes, she must have but she was so in love with their love.

So the question did Caroline really leave Kayvee and what are some of these signs?

Let’s quickly run down 10 signs you should notice

REVEALED! How To Know If A Man Isn’t In Love With You

1. LACK OF CARE

A man who cares about you should want to know about your welfare, your activities for the day, all you did, where you went and if possible always want to know your current toasters.

He gets jealous when you give him less time over others, he is worried about making sure no guy is disturbing his woman, he will always profess his love for you reminding you how he needs you and wants you to be a part of his life.

But when he doesn’t do any of these things he is beginning to lose interest.

2. LACK OF ATTENTION

There is a popular saying that, it is the small million little things that matter, for example, Kayvee was a rich guy who later on hardly checked up on Caroline, whenever they were together he preferred his own space and all but whenever he needs her attention he flaunts his money on her by buying her expensive things to express how sorry he was.

In my world, I will see that as an insult trust me.

3. ALWAYS HAVING EXCUSES

You call him to come around he is busy, you call him to come help you out he is hanging out, you both are together yet you need him around but he is busy with his phone, trust me a guy who acts this way doesn’t in any way prioritize you in his life.

4. ATTITUDE

He begins to give you an attitude even when he is the one at fault, he has no remorse for his wrongs, is always ready to defend himself, and doesn’t care about his words even though they might be hurtful, he just decides to frustrate you all the time.

5. SACRIFICE

Sacrifices are one of the things which contribute to the success of solid relationships. But a guy who isn’t in love will hardly sacrifice his time or effort for you and that’s because
sacrifices come out from a heart of love.

6. SUPPORT

The goal of every relationship should be to always stand by each other no matter what.

But for a guy who chooses not to support you physically, spiritually, financially, or even your career by giving you that morale support is that guy worth staying with?

He doesn’t appreciate you or even celebrate your wins, doesn’t want to help you build yourself, or even assists you in making your weakness your strength.

7. VIOLENCE

When you begin to notice how violent he can be, maybe he threatens you, abuses you emotionally not even by beating you, every conversation you have with him becomes an argument, the tiniest little thing you do that doesn’t require an issue he complains about it.

This doesn’t go down well with me.

8. SECRETS

This is very common but they tend to call it privacy. Very funny right? For example, he begins to change his phone passwords doesn’t want you close to any of his gadgets, he tells you do not pick my calls for any reason, begins to hide things from you by telling lies, etc.

9. LACK OF COMMITMENT

As they say, it is two imperfect people that build a perfect relationship. When he begins to exhibit nonchalant behaviour, not ready to keep up with the relationship via communication, no efforts on his part into building the relationship, etc,  then he is falling out of love.

10. NOT PROUD OF YOU

Every guy loves to flaunt his woman in front of everyone. If he doesn’t want to show you to his friends, doesn’t appreciate how beautiful, loving, and great you are as a person, isn’t proud of your achievements as his woman, or doesn’t want to brag about you then he is no longer in love or was never in love with you.

Yes you might so much love him that you can’t see yourself leaving him, yes it is very possible and I won’t blame you for that.

But what can you do in such situations? So many might say hell no there is nothing to think about just leave him. Yes, I agree with you also, that isn’t a pain I will pray for anyone to go into.

After my friend Caroline and her boyfriend, Kayvee separated she was broken because she loved him so much. Honestly my advise was for her to do what he told her to do but Caroline didn’t because of what they’ve been through and she knew her man so well, she just wanted some answers to why he said that.

After she gave them some space for some months, she pleaded they talk things through so
that she can get her answers which she did.

Could you believe they both sorted things out and their friendship eventually led to marriage. Now they are happy with two kids. Crazy right? What really happened after I asked her later on was that I discovered Kayvee had some issues, he was depressed
and didn’t know how to handle it so he felt like letting everyone out of his life and possibly taking his own life was the best answer.

Not all cases are like this trust me. In fact out of a 10 only about 0.1 ends up this way because for most the best choice to make is to LEAVE the relationship, and always remember your life MATTERS and your inner peace is very important.

Writer: Peace Agoha

By IYABO AINA

Publisher Of News Rain Nigeria